Have fun as you pick out some of the following sexy novelty ideas for your intimate honeymoon night and/or holiday.

No need to feel embarrassed or shy! Make it fun and sexy and your partner will remember that special honeymoon night for many years to come! Sexy lingerie is the obvious choice but there are numerous toys and games to spice up the night.

For the bride, try thigh high stockings and killer heels with any combination of bra, panties or camisole sets. Grooms can try an array of sexy briefs preferably satin or leather. No everyday cotton!

Try one of the sexy games that has you removing articles of clothing one piece at a time or kissing different body parts. You might try to incorporate some food like strawberries, whipping cream, chocolate, champagne and mints into your play.

Check out some of the online sex toy sites for play items you can order from the privacy of your home. No need to feel self-conscious in a sex store! Pick out a few sexy tunes and practice some stripper moves. This is guaranteed to get the night started!

If you and your partner are adventurous and you KNOW your partner is not offended by adult movies, you could slip on a movie to play in the background and suggest trying a few of their moves! Find different textures around your house such as satin, silk and feathers. These brushed over your partner’s body during playtime, heightens the senses.

The important thing is to have fun and laugh. Know what turns your partner on and have fun driving each other crazy with desire and make your honeymoon a sexy time to remember!

Introduction

A wedding should be one of the most special occasions in your life, but sometimes counting the cost of the event can leave the newly weds feeling less than a happy couple. The average cost a wedding in the UK is £18,000 and $32,000 in the US. But does the perfect wedding have to break the bank? This article explores how you can plan an affordable wedding.

1. Timescale

The key to an affordable wedding is all in the planning. Whilst it is tempting to get married as soon a possible, sometimes patience can pay off and not leave you and your spouse with hefty debt as you start your new life together. Where possible having a minimum of twelve months to plan your special day can really make a difference to costs. Not only does it give you more time to shop around for the best prices but it also offers time to save extra money for the weddings plans.

2. The importance of the wedding date

The date you choose for your wedding can make the difference to how much things cost. People choose different dates and times of the year for a variety of reasons including to ensure good weather. But think about your wedding date carefully. Is it close to peak season where there is likely to be an increased demand for a venue, photographer, catering specialist etc; therefore pushing up prices. Will your honeymoon be more expensive because of increased travel at that time of the year.

Is there a major sports event or conference occurring in your local area during this period I.e. the Olympics, the G8 conference or a rock gig? It is definitely worth checking with your local government body to find out if any major events are planned before deciding upon your final wedding date.

3. Marriage Venue

Choosing a venue in which to get married is critical for setting the tone of the big day. Do you get married in a formal place of worship or as some countries now permit, a venue of your choosing, providing a legal official is there to witness the event.

My advice for planning an affordable wedding is to think creatively. Getting married on a beach for instance, has no cost attached to it other than the cost of the person charged with conducting the ceremony. A close family friend actually got married in the middle of a woodland area with hay bales being used as seating!

4. Reception Venue

The reception venue is also another major area where you can save money.

If you are keen to go for an established venue like a hotel or function room then do consider bringing in your own catering team. Don’t automatically accept the catering provided by the venue host as some will charge a lower venue fee, but overcharge on food provision.

If you’re feeling more creative you can find cheaper venues which can be transformed into the perfect place to host a reception. Think about some of the following;

a) A Barn

Find a local farmer and ask if they have a disused or presently empty crop barn that you could hire for a nominal fee.

b) A private beach

Some areas of beach are privately owned and landlords are often willing to hire then out for a small sum. Watching the sun set whilst dancing the night away can be highly appealing.

c) A social Club or school hall

Any room can be transformed into a beautiful Oasis of pleasure as long as it is clean and well ventilated. Whilst the initial thought of using such a venue might be unappealing to some, it offers the opportunity for you to create your perfect venue. A friend recently got married and decide not to choose the $6,000 hotel venue closest to them. Instead they hired a school hall for $300 and spent a further $900 transforming it into the perfect reception venue with stunning fabrics for drapes, water fountains and chandeliers. It really looked stunning with a little creativity and saved $5,000 on the previous venue quote.

5. Transport

Most people like to arrive and leave in style on their wedding day and why not?

Unfortunately chauffeur firms regularly charge excessive amounts for wedding transport so why not ask friends and family if they know anyone with a stylish or unusual vehicle. Perhaps they own a classic car or a horse and cart that they would be willing to let you use for the day. Far from being offended by you asking , people often feel privileged that you have asked. The fact that they are likely to be the first guest to see how beautiful the bride looks as they transport you to the wedding venue will be an added incentive for them!

6. Entertainment

Most couples who get married opt for either a DJ or a live band for the wedding reception, but this can prove costly.

Consider asking friends or family if they know people with good musical skills who can play on the night. This can save hundreds of dollars, but make sure you hear then play first!

7. The Wedding Dress

The wedding dress is perhaps one of the largest expenses long with bridesmaid dresses. It is very possible, however, to look a million dollars without spending excessively.

The most costly part of a dress is the labour time that goes into making it. Ask friends or family if they know of anyone who would be prepared to make you the perfect dress if you source the material yourself. There is almost always someone who has the skills to create a great dress without breaking the bank. Perhaps there is a skill you have that you could offer in return for their time and effort. Perhaps you or your husband to be is a builder or other trades person, a lawyer, accountant, book keeper, beautician, physiotherapist and you can trade your skills in return for their’s

Also try and source your material from a wholesaler rather than high street retailer as it is likely to save you money. Some communities also have a thriving Asian population many of whom use exquisite types of material for making traditional dress. These shops often provide excellent value for money material and they are often willing to haggle on price as this is part of their cultural upbringing.

Summary

Your wedding day should be one of the most special events in your life but it need not leave you with substantial debts. Planning is key, so try to allow plenty of time to research your options and think creatively about ways to reduce costs without it effecting the overall experience. Following some of the suggestions in this article will help you plan an affordable and enjoyable wedding.

Wedding DVDs are becoming increasingly popular for a variety of reasons. DVDs can teach you how to master your first dance or guide you through planning the entire event. And making wedding DVDs of your ceremony and reception is a great way to share your special day with friends and family for a lifetime.

Get Your Groove On

If your first priority is perfecting that first dance, you might want to check out the popular DVD series “DanceCrazy”. DanceCrazy’s Wedding Dance Mastery System can make your wedding day even more special and exciting within a few practice session. This series includes a comprehensive instructional guide to your first wedding dance, and your first dance as husband and wife. DanceCrazy’s Wedding DVDs are for even the complete beginner to partner dancing. And who knows, you could become the next YouTube stars!

Guided Wedding Planning

If you are having trouble finding a good wedding planning book, videos or DVDs are another option. Certain aspects of the planning process benefit from video, like seeing clips of actual weddings and receptions. This can be especially helpful if you are planning a wedding in a resort location so you can preview the setting before making your final decisions. And did you know that many popular wedding and honeymoon resort locations like Disney World will send you a DVD for free?

Filming The Special Day

If you plan to have your ceremony and reception recorded, capturing directly on to DVD or converting the video is an excellent idea. But first of all, note that wedding DVDs are not intended to replace your use of a professional wedding photographer, nor do they need to capture the entire ceremony. No two albums or wedding DVDs are exactly alike, in the same way that no two brides are exactly alike. So just like your professional photographs, your wedding DVD should be considered a work of art that will help keep your dreams alive.

Advantages Over Videotapes

DVDs last longer than videotapes and with their built-in interactivity you’ll be able to see the part where Aunt Flossie loses her shoe doing The Funky Rooster without having to watch or fast forward through the whole thing! DVDs are also chapter-headed, so that each part of your special day can be viewed in any order you want. They may also be played on a standard PC with a DVD drive and viewing software, which is typically included. DVDs are also much easier to make copies of than videotapes as long as you have the right equipment and software on your computer.

Whether you already have wedding books to help with your planning, wedding DVDs can make an excellent supplement. As far as dance instruction, the “DanceCrazy” series is rated as being almost as good as live dance classes. And for the sake of posterity, modern and long-life DVDs are the best way to share your ceremony and reception with family and friends for years to come.

“Why not choose a destination wedding?” should be the question. Destination weddings are becoming so popular that planning one is almost a no-brainer. You get a picture-book wedding setting and a vacation to boot – and your guests will love it!

Below are the top five reasons that you should consider planning a get-away wedding.

1. You get to leave all your “cares” at home and leave the details to others.

Whether you choose an island wedding, European sojourn, “rough it in the wild” safari in Africa or a dream cruise on a luxury ship, you’ll find staff ready and waiting to cater to your every want and need.

What better way to begin your new life than on a relaxed note? Your work or anything that might cause stress will be out of sight and out of mind with a destination wedding.

2. A destination wedding will give you more for your money.

You might think that traveling to an exotic location to get married would break the budget you painstakingly created for your wedding. Contrary to that belief, a destination wedding can actually be less of a strain on your pocketbook.

Packages are readily available that come with everything included – air fare, transportation needs, discounts for larger parties, etc. Consider that in many locations, everything you need (such as flowers and music) is localized to make your destination wedding simple.

3. You’ll get to choose the background and activities that appeal to you, as a couple.

The picture-book setting of a Hawaiian beach is the perfect background for your destination wedding if you’re dreaming of getting married barefoot on the beach with orchids in your hair. The photos will be stunning.

But if the beach isn’t your bag, a European wedding in a castle can fulfill daydreams of Romeo and Juliett or King Arthur and his love, Gwenaviere.

4. You get to choose the weather for your special day!

It’s true that most couples think of warm weather for saying their faraway vows with a destination wedding. But you might have other ideas – like snow and skiing. By doing a little research, you can make your dream weather come true.

5. Thinking of a theme? A destination wedding can be a change from the traditional wedding ritual.

Many couples are considering a theme wedding rather than the tired old rituals held in a church. An island destination wedding will go over much better in Jamaica or Hawaii than Portland, Maine.

Are you dreaming of a winter wonderland theme and you live in Florida? Switzerland or Norway can fill the bill in a way that will get you in the mood more than 90-degree weather could.

An old English tradition known as friendship balls has taken root in new form – the Bride’s Friendship Bag. Friendship balls were passed from mother to daughter, friend to friend - on special occasions. These balls were filled with a favor and were only passed to someone very special.

This has been a great tradition passed down through time. A Bride’s Friendship Bag is great spin-off on the way a bride can show appreciation to her wedding party members.

Many countries have different ways of giving favors - like Bulgaria, where they give a little basket with wheat and sweets or England where they give sugared almonds wrapped in a little material pouch. A Bride’s Friendship Bag can be used in any country, regardless of its origins.

Fast forward to today - many brides still carry on this tradition by giving gifts in a Bride’s Friendship Bag to their maid of honor, bridesmaids and close friends. The reason stands the same – showing appreciation and thanks for the person participating in your special day.

All maids of honor and bridesmaids love to receive a Brides Friendship Bag because it’s not only a great gift for them, but they also see it as a big thank you for the part they played in your wedding day.

Many of those who receive the gifts tend to keep them as a keepsake to remind them of your special day, something to look back on and think of the wonderful memories your day brought to you and your guests.

You can put anything you want in your Bride’s Friendship Bag. It can be as extravagant or as small as you wish. Maybe you want to put cosmetics or something small like chocolates and a card. In the end you know the people who will be receiving the bags so you know what they will like.

Although you don’t have to give a Bride’s Friendship Bag, it’s a unique way to deliver your traditional wedding favors in a keepsake that stands apart from what brides do and most couples seek out ways that they can shine – whether it’s through a unique wedding gown or the container in which they deliver their wedding favors.

How do you agree on a honeymoon if you want different things? You want to snorkel and jet ski and he wants to camp out. Let’s face it – today’s bride isn’t shy about making it all about her on the wedding day – but when it comes to the honeymoon, does your man have any input – or are you dictating whether you swim in the big blue ocean or hike to the top of Mount Everest?

A honeymoon is often the only vacation many couples take together – because once kids are in the picture, it’s difficult for some couples to find time for a romantic rendezvous. Or, if you’re a couple always on the go, you may find it difficult to find a honeymoon destination that’s unique and special.

Many couples find they’re polar opposites when it comes to what they want out of their honeymoon vacation. Some guys want hiking and lots of sun and sports while their brides just want to relax and soak up the sun – or vice versa!

Believe it or not, there are ways to make sure both of you get what you want out of your honeymoon, but you have to be willing to compromise a bit. For instance, if the two of you go on a cruise, you will probably be docking at various ports.

During the time you’re docked, you and your new husband can participate in the activities offered by the locals – such as hiking tours or extreme sports. While the ship is at sea, he can agree to lounge by the pool with you or enjoy the fine dining that makes your honeymoon romantic.

Even if you’re honeymooning in the snow-frosted mountains, it’s possible for one of you to participate in the activities while the other relaxes. Or, take turns doing what the other person wants.

Marriage is all about compromise. The world is too big for any couple to disagree about where to honeymoon. Out of all of the exotic and affordable places on earth, you’re bound to find at least one spot that offers something both of you want to experience.

If you can’t figure it out yourself, find a travel agent who isn’t pushy and who will listen to each of your needs and then create the perfect honeymoon package that excites both of you.

Not all couples have surprise engagements. In today’s world, there are many women who prefer to dictate exactly what kind of engagement and wedding ring they want their beau to purchase for them.

What’s worse is that many women are catty. Some women blatantly tell their husbands-to-be that the only requirement they have for their wedding ring is that it’s bigger than so-and-so’s ring.

Most brides aren’t even concerned about the quality of the diamond – size matters most and they’re hoping to blind the entire sea of guests with their sparkling wedding ring. Not every bride cares about size and cost. Some care more about sentimental value.

One bride was disappointed that her fiancé had proposed without yet buying her a wedding ring. He assumed she’d want to pick it out herself, and he was saving the money to do it right. But she told him that she’d be happy with a Cheerio on her finger.

Then there are the women who demand that their wedding ring cost more than a car and be bigger than two carats. “If not,” they say, “don’t even bother proposing.” Which kind of woman are you?

Let’s clarify something. No one is saying you should be pleased with a piece of cereal on your ring finger. But there’s more to your wedding ring selection than size. Some brides don’t want diamonds, but if you do, make sure the quality of the diamond is adequate.

Try on several options and ask about the possibility that you’ll be allergic to the materials the wedding ring is made out of. It’d be a shame to wear your $10,000 Platinum band only to find it has a hint of nickel in it and it’s giving you a rash!

Try not to think of your wedding ring purchase as an “I want to outdo her ring” situation. There will always be someone who has a bigger, more sparkly diamond than yours. A wedding ring is a sentimental and financial investment you’re making for your future.

If the wedding ring is passed down as an heirloom to your children and grandchildren, you want them to know you and your groom spent your money wisely.